How I Came to be Nonbinary

Heart ornament painted like the nonbinary flag sitting on a thin cardboard backdrop.

I’m part of a queer support group where I live that’s comprised as much of parents/family of LGBTQIA+ kids that are looking for knowledge / help processing things as much as queer people directly, and […]

How I Figured Out I’m Asexual + A Christian Ace Experience

Open Bible resting on a wood surface with a highlighter sitting on it next to a highlighted line of text, and more writing instruments scattered on the table behind it.

I’ve been so focused on my university graduation in two weeks / life transition stuff that I failed to connect the passage of time to “Oh, I should write a post by today,” so since […]

Call for Submissions: February Carnival of Aces

Four cards - the aces of hearts, diamonds, clubs, and spades - laying on a black background like someone set their hand down to show them off.

Hi all! This month, I’m the host for February’s Carnival of Aces.  From the Asexual Agenda: “A Carnival of Aces is a monthly blogging carnival centered on the asexual spectrum (asexuals, gray-As, demisexuals, etc.).  Anyone […]

(My) Aromanticism and Mental Health / Neurodivergency

The aromantic flag with the rainbow infinity symbol superimposed on it

This is a post as part of the May 2022 Carnival of Aros blogging event, which is hosted by AUREA (Aromantic-Spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy) in order to collect material for a book […]

The SAM and Mia’s Many Labels

The words "The SAM and Mia's Many Labels" against a pale but bright background of mossy rocks surrounded by fallen leaves

Ever get confused about what your orientation is because it seems to be two different ones, or had a hard time explaining to a friend that just because you think someone is hot doesn’t necessarily […]

How I Figured Out I’m Aromantic

Images of the rainbow, lesbian, bisexual, genderfluid, aromantic, asexual, nonbinary, trans, agender, intersex, demiromantic, and demisexual pride flags against a salmon-colored background

On Valentine’s Day, I was browsing Twitter, as one does, when someone reached out to ask what it was like being aromantic, and how I had figured out I was.  Because it was Valentine’s Day […]